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πŸ‘‚ Listening During Conflict

September 07, 2026β€’1 min read

Conflict without listening leads nowhere.

In The Trials of Wisdom, resolution begins not with speakingβ€”but with listening. Each perspective carries insight, and without understanding both sides, clarity cannot be reached.

Listening creates space.

β€œIn conflict, the one who listens sees what the one who speaks alone cannot.”
β€” Book of Heaven, Chapter 8, Verse 21

In our own lives, conflict often becomes a cycle of speakingβ€”not listening.

We defend.
We respond.
We react.

But wisdom listens first.

Because understanding the other perspective…
is the first step toward resolution.

πŸ”₯ In the next post: Speaking with clarity in conflict.

Stay with us on the journey through The Trials of Wisdom.

D.Scott Lofthouse

D.Scott Lofthouse

D. Scott Lofthouse has lived a life defined by service β€” as a law enforcement officer, military veteran, educator, and author. His journey from the streets of Anchorage to the quiet mountains of Utah reflects both discipline and faith, courage and reflection. He began his career in 1986 with the U.S. Air Force, serving in Belgium, Guam, and Alaska as a Law Enforcement Specialist and Investigator before joining the Anchorage Police Department in 1993. Over the next two decades, he became Alaska’s foremost authority on gang intelligence, serving as the primary Gang Intelligence Officer for the state and working closely with the FBI Safe Streets Task Force. His professionalism and leadership earned numerous commendations, including multiple Chief’s Letters of Recognition and a Mayor’s Certificate of Appreciation. A natural teacher, D. Scott also served as an adjunct professor of criminal justice at Charter College and lectured on gang investigations, leadership, and internet safety across the country. His years of service instilled in him a deep understanding of humanity’s dual nature β€” the constant tension between darkness and light β€” a theme that lies at the heart of his writing. Now retired from law enforcement, D. Scott lives in Utah, where he continues to write and teach. His fantasy series, The Chronicles of the Sacred Kingdom, beginning with The Trials of Unity, explores the moral and spiritual dimensions of courage, leadership, and redemption. A devoted father and grandfather, he draws daily inspiration from family, faith, and the quiet majesty of the mountains that surround him.

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